自讨没趣

Upon closer inspection, I detected evasion. Lots of it. But why 'conveniently ignore' those questions? Privacy reasons? Or I'm too much of an outsider to know those pieces of information?

I prefer asking questions to answering them. Knowing gives me more security than telling. But in this case, perhaps I should ask less in the future.

On the other hand, receiving answers to the evaded question via another source is, hmmm.... how should I put it? Ya, it's definitely unpleasant.